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The Heartwarming Journey of ‘Formally Ever After’

Tammy Robinson shares her story of turning grief into action, the power of kindness, and how she's helped almost 6000 students get to their school formals.

By 96five Tuesday 9 Apr 2024Chappy ChatsPodcastsReading Time: 3 minutes

Main Image: Tammy with her partner Athol are bringing hope and kindness to the Logan community (Formally Ever After Facebook page).

Hosted by Sarah Petchell, Chappy Chats returns for a new season with Tammy Robinson’s story of inclusion, community compassion and kindness.

In our day and age, where the rift between the haves and the have-nots seems to only widen, it’s heartening to stumble upon stories like Tammy Robinson’s.

Armed with formal wear and a heart to serve others, Tammy has been quietly redefining what community spirit looks like in Logan.

Behind the curtain of ‘Formally Ever After’, there’s more going on than just the giving away of glitzy dresses and sharp suits. It’s a tale of hope, dreams, and making the impossible, well, possible.

Consider the high school formal – an event that many of us look back on with a mixture of nostalgia and warmth. It really is a rite of passage for Australian students as they conclude their studies in Year 12.

Yet for some students, this milestone event is overshadowed by financial barriers. It’s a harsh reminder of the inequalities that persist in society; but then, along comes Tammy.

Refusing to let these barriers dictate the terms, she initiated ‘Formally Ever After’, a project that does more than just outfitting students for their big night. It gifts them an experience they thought was out of reach.

The outfits are all provided at no cost, and are supplied through donations from the community.

Now, Tammy’s approach isn’t one of mere charity.

It’s about empowerment and inclusion; she makes sure that every student stepping through her door leaves feeling seen, valued, and ready to take on their formal night with confidence.

The program also helped Tammy deal with grief and loss.

“In three months I’d lost three really important women in my life and I thought, how can I get over this?”, Tammy told Sarah Petchell on 96five’s Chappy Chats podcast.  “And I remember I was on the floor literally crying and I thought the way to get over it is to just keep supporting the students.”

And there’s nothing quite like seeing a student’s face light up when they find that perfect outfit – it’s a moment of pure joy, both for them and Tammy.

It’s about telling these young souls, “Hey, you matter. Your dreams matter. And we, as a community, have got your back.”

Sarah Petchell (left) speaks with Tammy Robinson on the latest edition of Chappy Chats (96five).

What’s remarkable about Tammy’s story is how it underlines the power of kindness and community.

It’s a reminder that even the smallest gestures can have profound impacts. It’s not just about the dresses or suits; it’s about erasing those lines that divide us, if only for a moment, and reminding each other of the beauty in lending a helping hand.

Tammy’s efforts have not only won her local acclaim but have sparked a conversation about social responsibility and compassion within and beyond Logan. She’s even dressed students in regional Queensland, and as far away as the UK!

Yet, ask her about it, and she’d humbly redirect the spotlight back to the students and the wider community that supports her cause.

Indeed, ‘Formally Ever After’ is a testament to what can be achieved when one person’s vision sparks a collective effort to make a difference.

So, if Tammy’s incredible journey tells us anything, it’s that change doesn’t always come from the top down.

Sometimes, it starts with one person standing up and saying, “Let’s make a difference.”

Through ‘Formally Ever After’, she’s not just outfitting students for a night; she’s weaving a fabric of hope, confidence, and unity that cloaks an entire community.

Listen to Tammy’s story as told on the Chappy Chats With Sarah Petchell podcast in the audio player at the top of the page.  Or find Chappy Chats wherever you listen to podcasts.